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Language & Abbreviations
The escort and nightlife industry has developed its own unique vocabulary-an informal code understood mostly by experienced escorts and experienced clients. For those who are new to the world of private escort services, this insider language can often feel confusing or overwhelming, and at times may lead to miscommunication or unmet expectations.
Clear, respectful communication is key to any successful encounter. To support this, we’ve put together a glossary designed to clarify the meanings behind commonly used escort terms, acronyms, and abbreviations. Whether you’re a client who’s unsure of certain listings or an escort encountering unfamiliar requests, this guide is here to help bridge the knowledge gap.
A
Anal Play – Any external or internal stimulation of the anus using fingers, tongue, toys, or a penis.
Anal Sex (Greek) – Penetration of the anus with a penis; often referred to as "Greek."
ATM (Ass to Mouth) – Involves oral contact immediately after anal sex or penetration, such as using a vibrator or finger in the mouth post-anal play.
B
BBi Twin – A double booking involving two bisexual escorts.
BJ (Blow Job) – Oral stimulation of the penis.
BBBJ (Bare Back Blow Job) – Unprotected oral sex on a man.
BBBJTC – Bare back blow job to completion.
BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) – A curvy, voluptuous, fuller-figured woman.
BLS (Balls Licking & Sucking) – Oral stimulation of the testicles.
B & D (Bondage & Discipline) – Erotic practice involving power exchange and control.
BDSM – Bondage, Dominance, Submission, and Masochism; includes a wide range of consensual kink activities.
Bondage – The act of restraining a partner as part of sexual activity.
Brazilian – A waxing style that removes most or all pubic hair, including the front, middle, and rear.
BS (Body Slide) – A sensual massage using full-body contact, usually performed nude.
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CCBT (Cock and Ball Torture) – A BDSM practice that involves stimulation or infliction of pain on the male genitals.
CD (Cross Dressing) – Wearing clothing traditionally associated with the opposite gender for erotic or personal pleasure.
CIM (Cum in Mouth) – Ejaculation inside the partner's mouth.
CIMWS (Cum in Mouth with Swallow) – Ejaculation in the mouth followed by swallowing.
CBJ (Covered Blow Job) – Oral sex performed using a condom.
COB (Cum on Body) – Ejaculating on a partner’s body.
COF (Cum on Face) – Ejaculating on a partner’s face.
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Cougar – An older woman who seeks intimate relationships with younger men.
Costumes & Role Play – Wearing themed outfits (e.g., nurse, schoolgirl) and acting out fantasies to heighten arousal.
Couples – Services offered to couples, often with a bisexual component from the escort.
D
DDATY (Dining At The Y) – Performing oral sex on a woman.
DATO – Another term for rimming or oral stimulation of the anus.
DFK (Deep French Kissing) – Intimate kissing involving tongues.
Dinner Companion – An escort who accompanies you socially to a meal, may or may not include intimacy.
Dirty Talk – Use of erotic or graphic language to enhance sexual pleasure.
DP (Double Penetration) – Simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration by two individuals.
DDP (Double Digit Penetration) – Penetration involving one finger in each opening.
DT (Deep Throat) – Oral sex where the entire penis is taken into the mouth.
Doggy Style – A rear-entry sex position.
E
Erotic Sensual Massage – A massage with the intent of providing sexual stimulation and relaxation.
F
Facial – Ejaculating on the face of a partner.
FE (Female Ejaculation) – Also known as squirting; release of fluid during orgasm.
Fetish – A strong sexual preference for specific objects, body parts, or scenarios.
Filming – Recording of sexual activity for private or commercial use.
Fire & Ice – Alternating oral stimulation using warm tea and cold ice for contrasting sensations.
Fisting – Penetration of the vagina or anus with the entire hand.
FK (French Kissing) – Kissing involving open mouths and tongues.
Foot Fetish – Sexual attraction focused on feet or footwear.
French – Another term for oral sex.
FS (Full Service) – Indicates that the escort offers intercourse as part of their service.
G
Gagging – A form of oral sex where the partner experiences a gag reflex during deep penetration.
GFE (Girlfriend Experience) – A more intimate style of booking that may include kissing, cuddling, and emotional engagement.
Greek – Another term used to describe anal sex.
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GS (Golden Shower) – Urination on or by a partner for erotic gratification.
H
Happy Ending – Manual release following a massage.
HJ (Hand Job) – Manual stimulation of the penis.
I
Italian – The act of rubbing the penis between a partner’s buttocks.
L
LK (Light Kissing) – Gentle kissing without tongue.
M
MILF – A sexually attractive older woman; acronym for “Mother I’d Like to F***.”
MFF – Threesome involving one man and two women.
MMF – Threesome involving two men and one woman.
Multiple Positions – Engaging in a variety of sexual positions during a session.
Masturbation – Self-stimulation to reach orgasm using hands or toys.
Mutual Masturbation – Both partners stimulating themselves while watching each other.
Mutual French – Both partners engage in oral sex, sometimes simultaneously (also known as 69).
Mutual Natural French – Unprotected mutual oral sex.
MSOG (Multiple Shots on Goal) – Multiple orgasms in one session.
N
Natural Bush – Unshaven or natural pubic hair.
O
OWO (Oral Without a Condom) – Unprotected oral sex.
Overnight Stays – A session that includes spending the night together.
P
Photography – Taking photos during sexual activity (with consent).
PNDP – Please No Dick Pics; indicates that explicit photos are not welcome.
Prostate Massage – Stimulating the prostate through the anus to enhance male pleasure.
PSE (Porn Star Experience) – A session modeled after what is seen in adult films; often includes more intense or explicit acts.
Punter – A slang term for a client or customer of an escort.
R
Role Play – Acting out specific fantasy scenarios.
Rimming – Oral stimulation of the anus.
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Sex Toy – Devices like vibrators or dildos used to enhance pleasure.
Snowballing – The act of passing semen from one partner’s mouth to another.
Spanish – Rubbing the penis between the escort’s breasts (also known as a titjob).
Spanking – Slapping the buttocks during intimacy for arousal.
Spit Roasting – A woman performing oral sex while simultaneously being penetrated from behind.
Squirting – Female ejaculation during orgasm.
Strap-On – A dildo worn with a harness to penetrate a partner.
Strip Tease – A sensual performance involving slow, erotic undressing.
T
Tea Bagging – Gently placing the testicles in the mouth of a partner.
Toy Show – A live display of self-pleasure using sex toys.
Tromboning – Simultaneously licking the anus and masturbating the penis from behind.
TTM (Testicular Tongue Massage) – Oral stimulation of the testicles using the tongue.
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W
Water Sports – Another term for urination play (see Golden Shower).
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WL (Working Lady) – An escort or sex worker.